How Russian Ladies Hold Themselves
Beliefs in a life mission and behavior patterns of ladies from Russia are very close to those of other Slavic women– Ukrainian or Belarusian Ladies are much different to those of European women (sometimes they are even contrasting). Mindsets, essentials of education, national characters determine it and actually make them differ or be alike. If you want to meet and date a Russian lady it would be interesting for you to learn about her wishes, aims, needs and beliefs in life. So how do Russian girls hold and present themselves in men’s and their own lives? Some comments on the matter are below.
Hunter-prey dating model
For the foreign men it sounds like absolute absurd but it is true – to become closer to them Russian ladies stray away from them. Yes, they are sure that keeping a man on distance they make him pursue them. Women strongly believe in “hunter-prey” model in relationship where they are supposed to be a prey. So they ought to ignore man even when they like him. Thus, man is supposed to stalk a woman, who pretends she doesn’t want to be stalked. They say such a model helps to make man value a woman.
External beauty is the profound value
Yes, it seems that each lady from Russia is beauty-obsessed. She may not have a university degree, own apartment or carrier but she might always have a fashionable outfit, slim figure and perfect look. Local girls like to show off and feel attractive for men (by the way that is the reason they compete with each other non-stop). To stay attractive means to be noticed by men and thus have an opportunity to realize a main mission – get married and devote a life to the family and kids. Here in Russia women are convinced that the key secret of long-lasting and happy relationship or family is staying attractive and desired for a husband (boyfriend). Ukrainian ladies as well as women of other Slavic countries share this opinion.
By the way, the main reasons Western and European men are looking for Slavic girls for marriage are their beauty and total orientation on family.
Femininity is the second religion
Each beautiful woman from Russia believes she needs to master the art of being feminine, because it is the basis of attractiveness. Emphasizing this quality they multiply their chances of success in meeting the right man who will love them and be ready to build the family. That is why they put much time and effort on it.
Single woman = low social status
One more absurd is that in spite of her age single lady possesses a low social status. Even if she is successful in career or some other field. Maybe it is so because of a consensual view on woman’s calling to be a wife and mother. So having a partner/boyfriend/husband is like having a medal of honor and +1 to Karma. It means that lady managed to make a man want her enough to make her the girl of his choice.